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Kristen Stewart: smiling is not an obligation, professional or otherwise

”She stands out on the red carpet because she does not smile broadly or pose; she usually looks slightly uncomfortable. Of her red-carpet experience,Stewart said:
People say that I’m miserable all the time. It’s not that I’m miserable, it’s just that somebody’s yelling at me…I literally, sometimes, have to keep myself from crying…It’s a physical reaction to the energy that’s thrown at you.”

“Stewart is often a target of a specific kind of body policing: the “smile, baby” requirement. When she appears on the red carpet and does not assure us with her teeth that she is simply thrilled to be reduced to a presence, a dress, a posture, she is often the target of harassment for her expression. There is an expectation of women in general and famous woman in particular to always assure the onlooker that they are happy to be looked upon through smiling, and Stewart rejects this.”

“Women are expected to be nice and sweet, to make other people feel comfortable. A woman who says ‘hey, I think there’s a problem here’ is being ‘negative.’ A woman who doesn’t smile while she’s being harassed is ‘humourless.’ A woman who prefers to stay focused on tasks is a ‘cold bitch.’ Significant gendering is involved here; women have an obligation to look and act a certain way and when they don’t, they need to be hassled until they do.”

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Source: sex-positive-bitches

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Source: weheartit.com

the only things i haven’t deleted are blogs that have posts on it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i might not update them very often BUT THEY ARE IMPORTANT TO ME I DON’T WANT TO DELETE THEM

AND I DON’T HAVE TO IT’S NOT HOARDING THOSE ARE ACTUAL BLOGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2 months ago

DELIGHTFUL NEWS

tumblr is saying i’m still hoarding urls

they don’t want to give me my blog back

i’m going

to

mùURDER

SOMEONE

2 months ago

IT’S 2.20 AM BUT I NEED TO TELL WHAT HAPPENED

you never know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

basically i was minding my own business, trying to reblog a delightful gifset of danrad for that matter, when, as i clicked reblog, a nice little message appeared : “invalid tumblelog” what the fuck, i thought ? (with good reason.)

in panic i clicked on my url which i was then UNABLE TO ACCESS. (i’m still unable to so are you my blog my poor poor baby blog.)

by the time i found the password for my email address that belonged to my tumblr account (let me spare you the details) it appears that i had a message from tumblr

that said as such :

please release your unused urls blabla

we have recently determined that you have a large number of saved urls

blabla

please delete them for the community or s/t

blabla you can’t make new posts to pretend they’re in use

you can’t make them to new accounts

etc

ok it appears that tumblr CAN’T know that unless someone reports you (otherwise all of your blogs would have been suspended TBH)

so yeah someone apparently wanted a saved url of mine and reported me fucking bastard i’m going to find you and make you cry

(so for you guys if you ever say which urls you have saved, DON’T, HIDE THEM, CARE FOR THEM SECRETLY, PEOPLE ARE MEAN AND STAB YOU IN THE BACK)

anyway it then took me basically an hour to delete all these urls because it’s fucking long

except andhairgrowsback that i’m using now, because guess what I AM KEEPING THIS URL

i then proceeded to email tumblr just about 35 minutes ago they haven’t answered i don’t have my blog back I WANT MY BLOG BACK.

so that’s what happened.

i’m now going to bed i’m miserable without my blog i don’t think this should be allowed tumblr knows zero things about freedom and when i break it to them THEY WILL ALSO CRY.

good night, i miss you

PS: I COULDN’T FINISH CASTLE S1 AND I’M ANGRY BUT HAVE FUN WITH THE NEW EP, ANYWAY

love you guys bye.